The AQUARIUS Woman
But Alice had got so much into the -way
of expecting nothing but out-of-the-way things to happen
that it seemed quite dull and stupid
for life to go on in the common way …
Put cats in the coffee, and mice in the tea- And welcome Queen Alice with thirty times three!
The safest way to enter into romance with an Aquarius woman is to remember she’s as paradoxical in love as she is in everything else. That way, you won’t be expecting Priscilla Alden and get Pocahontas.
Never try to tie the Aquarius woman to the stove or the bedpost.
This girl has all the faithfulness of the fixed signs when die’s in love, but she also has the detachment and lack of emotion of the air element. It’s possible to have a happy relationship with the Uranus woman if you leave her free to pursue her myriad interests and circulate among her friends. Never try to tie her to the stove or the bedpost. Ask the man who’s tried. She can suddenly decide to study ballet, meditate in the mountains or join the Peace Corps. Remember the story of the princess with the long, golden hair who lived high in a tower? That’s the Aquarius female. Cutting off her flowing tresses won’t change her any more than it did in the fairy tale. She dreams different dreams than you or I. She hears a distant drummer-and follows a star most of us have never seen.
She belongs to everyone, and yet to no one. Her love can be tender and inspired, but there will always be a vaguely elusive quality about it, like a half-remembered song. You can hum the melody, but the lyrics keep slipping away. The Aquarian girl’s demand for freedom is insistent, but her allegiance to anyone who can accept romance within such limits is boundless. Here’s something you’ll like:
She won’t be terribly interested in your bank book
She won’t be terribly interested in your bank book (unless Cancer or Capricorn or Taurus is on her ascendant). Money is never the prime consideration of the typical Aquarius woman. She won’t care if you’re not the richest man in town, but she’ll expect you to be respected in some way for your intellectual achievements. Dr. Christian Barnard and his heart transplants or Wernher von Braun and his rockets interest her far more than J. Paul Getty and his billions.
When you set out to catch this butterfly in your net, remember that she’ll never spend her unpredictable life with a man who isn’t true to himself. Her own code of ethics may be as weird as anything you’ve ever come across, and quite different from the accepted codes of society, but she lives up to it totally. She’ll understand that your rules may also be highly individual. That’s fine with her, but don’t compromise those rules. If you’re looking for a passion flower, you’ve picked the wrong daisy. Passion is not her forte if she’s a typical Aquarian. She’ll think physical love is pleasant enough, if it’s not overemphasized.
Give her freedom to pursue her rather kicky, off-beat fancies.
In other words, she can take it or leave it alone. Uranus females can respond to lovemaking with a haunting, deep intensity, but if you prefer to keep it platonic for long periods of time, that’s all right, too. Like all Aquarians, she may have an unconscious fear that desire for one person will imprison the spirit in some way, and keep her from being true to her one great love-freedom. Freedom to experiment and investigate and freedom to give time to humanity. Also freedom to pursue her rather kicky, off-beat fancies.
She’s an ideal girl if you’re planning a political, scientific or educational career. You couldn’t do better, unless you happen to run across an Aquarian girl with adverse planetary positions in her natal chart who enjoys shocking people by walking barefoot down Main Street or smoking big black cigars on buses. There are some pretty wild, way-out Uranian females here and there. But the average girl born under the sign of the water bearer is a social delight. She’s graceful, witty, bright as a penny, and extremely adaptable to all forms of society, high and low and in the middle.
She’ll rarely doubt your word and will be least suspicious
Her lack of suspicion under normal circumstances is a special bonus. A traveling salesman should find his dream girl in the typical Aquarius woman. If she actually catches you being unfaithful, it will cause a deep wound to her sensitive nature. You’ll know it the minute you look into those strange, dreamy eyes. But she won’t suspect you without cause, and she’ll rarely doubt your word. The typical Uranus woman will never check up on you after you leave, phone you at the office, inspect your handkerchiefs for lipstick stains or look for blonde hairs caught in your cuff link.
Deception will have to be brought forcibly to her attention; she won’t go out looking for it. Before you give her too much credit, consider that her lack of passionate jealousy is due to something more than strength of character. First of all, she probably dissected your psyche under a microscope before she gave you a second glance. Besides, she has so many outside interests and so many people who turn her on to talk with, there’s not much time for her to worry about what you’re doing when you’re out of sight. Out of sight can often mean out of mind for Aquarians of both sexes. Absence seldom makes the Uranus heart grow fonder.
At the first actual proof of infidelity, she’ll simply walk away.
Occasionally, an Aquarius woman will suffer a promiscuous or flirtatious mate, because there’s something she needs which she can find only with him, so she looks the other way. On the other hand, if she doesn’t really need you, that moral strength will work in reverse at the first actual proof of infidelity. She’ll simply walk away. Don’t try to kindle the embers, they’re stone cold dead. Of course, you can still be friends. Why not?
She’s willing. It never embarrasses an Aquarius woman to be chummy with ex-lovers or husbands. She’s forgotten the past and wiped the slate clean of memories.
There is one peculiar and notable exception to the rule. Like the Uranus man, the Uranian female will remember the first true and honest love for a lifetime. Only the first, however. Are you wondering whether that Aquarius girl you once knew still remembers you? The answer lies in her definition of love. It could have something to do with the first boy who gave her a bunch of sweet peas when she was nine-the boy who walked her through the park in the rain-or the one with the funny ears who knew the clown at the circus, and used to feed her peanuts.
Uranus women involved in extra-marital affairs are rare.
Uranus women involved in extra-marital affairs are rare. They can be tempted in exceptional situations, but a dishonest relationship goes against their chemistry. It won’t be long until an undercover romance is broken off for good. Yet, there are many Aquarian divorcees. There’s a reason. If a situation becomes intolerable, the Uranian nature turns cold suddenly. They can disappear overnight, and never look back. They don’t seek or enjoy divorce, but it isn’t the shock to them it is to their more sentimental sisters. Uranus rules change, you know. Since she’s such an individualist, with a list of friends several miles long, the Aquarian female never hesitates to make her way alone if the need arises.
She’ll keep her motives well hidden
Expect her to probe into your heart until you haven’t a secret left, or a dream that hasn’t been analyzed. But don’t try to dissect her private thoughts. That’s not the way the game is played with Aquarians. She’ll keep her motives hidden, and sometimes take a perverse pleasure in deliberately confusing you. She’ll usually be truthful to a fault, but remember, with an Aquarian, telling a lie is one thing. Refraining from telling the whole story is another.
It’s comforting to know that an Aquarian girl is pretty cagey with a buck. That is, it’s
comforting to know unless you’re planning to hit her for a loan. She might say yes a time or two, but if you let your credit rating slip, she can be colder than the guy at the bank when you skip your car payment. On the rare occasions when she accepts a small loan herself, you’ll get back every penny with no stalling, excuses or feminine wiles, if she’s a typical Uranus female. As for every man’s nightmare of charge accounts, you’ll have little worry on that score. Aquarian women are uncomfortable about owing money. Bad debts don’t fit in with the Uranus code.
The Aquarian manner of dressing can stop you dead in your tracks.
Her appearance is puzzling. Most Aquarian women are lovely, with a haunting, wistful beauty. But they’re changeable. They can give an impression of smooth whipped cream, then suddenly switch to salty pizza as quickly as a bright, blue, zig-zag bolt of Uranian electricity. Next to Librans, Aquarian females are often the most beautiful women in the zodiac. At the very least, they’re interesting-looking. The Aquarian manner of dressing can stop you dead in your tracks. There are a few of them who could grace the cover of a fashion magazine, but the average Aquarian girl is anything but conventional about her costumes. She can wear some outfits a gypsy would envy, and her naked individuality can produce some mighty unique combinations. She’ll usually be the first to wear a new fad, no matter how zany it is, yet she can also stick to Grandma’s styles-even great-grandma’s styles. With typical – Aquarian indifference, she’ll mix yesterday’s lace snood with today’s metallic jump suit, and the effect can be a little startling.
She’ll wear her lace nightgown to a formal banquet, ostrich feathers to the supermarket, bell bottom slacks to the opera, sneakers to the theater, diamonds when she visits the zoo-and top it all off with a faded Mother Hubbard she picked up in a thrift shop.
Her tresses are as unpredictable as her personality.
Your Aquarian girl will probably have an unusual way of wearing her hair. Her tresses are as unpredictable as her personality. They can be worn braided, pig-tailed, pinned in a bun, flowing down like a waterfall, short as a marine’s, in Mary Pickford curls or as straight as a poker. One thing you can depend on. Her hair won’t look like the hair of any other female on this planet.
A conversation with her can be remarkable, to say the least. She has charming manners, and usually behaves in a timid, almost reserved way. Then comes one of those sudden Uranus urges, and out will pop a remark with absolutely no relation to what anyone is saying. You’ll be talking about the fluctuations of the stock market, and she’ll interrupt out of nowhere with: “Did you know that Woodrow Wilson, Jack Kennedy, Herbert Hoover, Harry Truman, Calvin Coolidge, Benjamin Harrison, Franklin and Theodore Roosevelt and William McKinley all have double letters in their names?” There’s only one way to answer a question like that. Tell her she missed Millard Fillmore, Ulysses Grant and Thomas Jefferson. Then gently, but firmly, lead the discussion back to the stock market. Other minds may progress in fairly logical steps, but hers rigs into tomorrow, then zags back into today with no more sense of direction than a flash of lightning.
Now and then she’ll toss off an unexpectedly poignant phrase. You’ll ask her what she thinks of space travel and she’ll answer, “When I was a little girl, I thought the stars were holes in the floor of heaven where the light shone through.” If she’s in a different mood, you’ll say that melted snowmen make you sad, and shell counter with: “A melted snowman is just a pile of slush, Charlie.” First misty-then practical. First timid-then rowdy. Aquarian women will rudely ridicule flying saucers, then tell you a story about a polka-dotted elf on a windowsill. Never talk down to an Aquarian female. She’ll resent not being considered your equal, and an unsympathetic attitude will cause her to retreat and become unapproachable.
The average Aquarius woman may be bewildered by motherhood in the beginning
Since Uranus rules the future, you might imagine that these girls would be natural mothers. Children do, after all, belong to the future. But the average Aquarian woman may be bewildered by motherhood in the beginning. She has to adjust to devoting all her attention and energy exclusively to one human being for a period of time, when she’s used to spreading herself far and wide, and this can take some practice. Her natural aloofness may make it difficult for her to demonstrate warm affection outwardly. The typical Aquarian mother is devoted to her offspring, but also somewhat detached toward them. But she’ll probably be the most willing PTA worker in the neighborhood. She’ll talk happily for hours with their small friends on their own level without patronizing them, and she’ll give up her afternoons to work for a school project.
The children will learn the lessons of brotherhood and humanity from her by observation. Aquarian mothers are never fiercely protective of their children. They take a tolerant view of the most startling confession. A Uranus woman will seldom punish a child for telling the truth, no matter what he’s done. With her unprejudiced viewpoint, she’ll gain the complete confidence of her little ones. She’s great at reassuring young minds about everything from monsters hiding under the bed to the pain of being ignored in the playground. She can turn their tears to laughter in minutes. Your children will find her jolly fun, a little helter-skelter, relaxed about housework, helpful with homework and gentle when they’re ill. She won’t smother them with affection, and she’ll seldom nag. Maybe Tommy didn’t wash his hands the third time he was told, but she’s more interested in what he learned in science class.
She has her own yardstick for measuring you
We may be a little ahead of ourselves. Even though Uranus likes to reverse the existing orders of things, before your Aquarian girl becomes a mother she has to become a wife. And before she becomes your wife, you’ll have to convince her that marriage isn’t synonymous with Alcatraz. She won’t exactly rush into matrimony. She’s in no hurry to take your name until she’s weighed you, sorted you, tested you, and found out what makes you tick. The opinions of her friends and family will mean nothing, though she may ask them what they think out of curiosity. She has her own yardstick for measuring you. Assuming you pass her test, marriage to an Aquarian girl can be confusing. She’ll listen pleasantly when you give her advice, but there’s something in the Uranian make-up that prevents her from following directions explicitly. She can’t stick to the recipe when she bakes one of her angel food cakes anymore than she can park the car exactly where you told her to.
There’s some kind of a snag in her thinking that causes her to believe just a little twist will improve anything. But she’ll smile agreeably as she goes on her own sweet way. There’s a constant urge to experiment with a different way to make the coffee, fill her pen, fasten her ice skates or cross the street. She’ll wear a sweater backwards, mix her brandy with milk, arrange flowers in a fish bowl, rinse her hair in shaving lotion or make a rock garden on your desk. But don’t ask her why. She doesn’t know herself. The unique and unusual is her wave-length, that’s all.
The line between friendship and love is often all but invisible to Aquarius.
Because her nature is so impersonal, expressions of deep feeling won’t come easily. Except for those sudden remarks that sound likes a combination of Robert Frost and Yogi Berra, she has few words with which to express her love, and her pattern of physical passion is woven closely with threads connected to the mind and soul. Although the unique Uranus outlook leads some Aquarian girls into peculiar attachments, once they find the right mate their marriages are usually models of happiness.
Your Aquarian woman can float through her days and nights with all the grace of a proud swan, but she may behave like a clumsy bear in romantic situations. The line between friendship and love is often all but invisible to Aquarius. Love songs about people who only have eyes for each other strike her as silly. There are so many miracles in the world for eyes to behold, it seems to her a terrible waste for two pairs of them to do nothing but gaze into each other’s depths. She’ll be glad to let you take her hand and walk beside her as she looks with happy delight on the sunrise, an antique car, the milkman’s horse, a yellow garbage pail, a stuffed owl or a red balloon caught in a church steeple. But don’t distract her with too much togetherness. Let her wander through her wonderland alone when she chooses, and she’ll never question your pinochle games with the boys.
The quickest ways to lose her are to show jealousy, possessiveness or prejudice
The quickest ways to lose her are to show jealousy, possessiveness or prejudice; to be critical, stuffy or ultra-conservative. You’ll also have to like her friends, who will come in odd, assorted sizes and shapes.
She’s susceptible to sudden flashes of inspiration, and her intuition is remarkable. Her judgment may not seem sound or practical at first, because she sees months and years ahead. The Aquarian girl lives in tomorrow, and you can only visit there through her. What she says will come true, perhaps after many delays and troubles, but it will come true. I suppose, after all, that’s the most special thing about your February woman. She’s a little bit magic.
Excerpts taken from Linda Goodman Sun signs
Find Out About Your Sign:
ARIES, the Ram – Mar 21 – Apr 19
TAURUS, the Bull – Apr 20 – May 20
GEMINI, the Twins – May 21 – Jun 20
CANCER, the Crab – Jun 21 – Jul 22
LEO, the Lion – Jul 23 – Aug 22
VIRGO, the Virgin – Aug 23 – Sep 22
LIBRA, the Scales – Sep 23 – Oct 22
SCORPIO, the Scorpion, Eagle or Gray Lizard- Oct 23 – Nov 21
SAGITTARIUS, the Archer – : Nov 22 – Dec 21
CAPRICORN, the Goat – Dec 22 – Jan 19
AQUARIUS, the Water Bearer – Jan 20 – Feb 18
PISCES, the Fish – Feb 19 – Mar 20
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